Hard Convos Vs Ghosting

Hey Shifters!

I’m sure we all can think of a time when you were faced with a decision that may or may not have been easy in regards to making a decision to either speak up or to just disappear AKA ghost a person or situation. Over the years I realized my way of thinking in these situations shifted predicated on the isolated event. The questions below are ones that I ask myself regardless of the phase of my life I’m currently in.

1. How valuable or what is my overall history with this person?

2. Is this person aware of the action, lack there of, or words that are currently causing discomfort between them and I?

3. Do I believe the incident was malicious in any way to me or my mental health?

Depending on the answer to these 3 questions allows me to determine if I will give a situation my energy. Sometimes too many conversations with the same person no matter the level of importance is not healthy for you or your mental health. Unfortunately, in those situations you have to know when there is nothing else to say and leave well enough alone. Or do you prefer to keep living in your own personal twilight zone?

Hopefully you found something helpful in my post!

As always, keep shifting!

Tiera-